So, you are going into a relationship
with someone for some time now and dating him/her
regularly. Slowly it dawns on you that both of you are
not the right match. Your instinct tells you that you
are right. But you are not able to gather the strength
to tell your steady about this. You would rather
continue hoping for the best rather than facing the
reality and breaking to start afresh. Still you are not
doing it. It sounds surprising, isn't it? But many
people carry on with relationships that are going
nowhere. They want to delay the inevitable to delay the
pain. This does not work because the pain increases over
time. What should be done? The answer is obvious. Sit
with your steady date and talk it out.
Why do many people continue with
relationships that are going nowhere? First, they are
worried about the pain of the process of breaking away.
Secondly, they don't want their time spent together go
waste and begin afresh with someone else. You wasted
your six months or a year, and you have nothing except
failure to show for that, maybe a common lament. Third -
what if the next date turns out to be worse? Dating that
is going nowhere frustrates.
The only solution is to make a clean break. Forget the
past as soon as possible and begin with a positive frame
of mind. The one change you need to bring in this is
before becoming steady with one person - date many.
Don't be in a hurry to decide about who you will be
dating regularly. Your next date may turn out to be far
better than yesterday's. Therefore date few and then
think about who may be proper to go forward with.
Carrying the past failure in mind will result in more
waste of time in regrets. Clean the slate and go ahead
with the hope of finding the best. Have no fear that
what happened may repeat. The law of probability may
rather go in your favor.
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