Why people fall in love?
It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how
happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery
some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails.
You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and
causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life
of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the
the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the
love is more than the sum of the interests and
and commonalities that two people share. And just as
itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so
coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift
cannot be questioned in its ways.
Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the
love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it
celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the
all share. More often, it will come and take hold of
celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.
When this happen to young people, they
too often try to
grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that
it is a
gift that just as freely, moves away. When they fall out
love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love
they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost
than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.
They want answers where there are no answers. They
want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other
person no longer love them, or try to get their love to
thinking that if some small things were different, love
bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that
they go far away and start a new life, their love will
They try anything to give meaning to what has happened.
there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until
accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of
You need to know this about love, and accept it. You
treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find
love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with
yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just
choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find yourself someone in love with you but you
love him back, feel honored that love came and called at
door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do
take advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal with
is how you deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the
pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are
If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it
assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is
meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you.
you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when
comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to
then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the
who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem
poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any
way you can.
There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long
without love, they understand love only as a need. They
their hearts as empty places that will be filled by
they begin to look at love as something that flows to
rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing,
their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a
They cease to be someone who generates love and instead
become someone who seeks love. They forget that the
secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be
grow only by giving it away.
Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its
own season, its own reason for coming and going. You
cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying.
only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it
comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart
from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can
there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and
always will be a mystery. BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE
FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE.
If you keep you heart open, it will come again....
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